Saturday 8 November 2014

Trying

People come to you because they are worried, scared, sad or confused.  
Some come because they want a better life.
Some have had enough and they just want to die. 

You do the best you can. 

Sometimes it makes a difference. 
Sometimes it doesn’t. 
That’s hard to bear.

So you try harder.






Stories about psychotherapy, loss and love

Saturday 25 October 2014

Beyond the therapeutic state (26-28 june 2014, Drammen, Norway)

Conference Report by Karine Van Tricht: 

The Taos conference took a promising start with the introductory speech by Sheila Mc Namee.  She summoned to all present to be pioneers being creative and innovative when trying to establish a movement where the connectivity with our clients gives us an answer to the psychiatric over medicalization and over diagnosing.

That same night we spoke about ‘WE versus THEM’ and ‘to have a dialogue with the enemy, without calling him the enemy’. Before I realized I was pulled towards a biased discussion where the positive stories of clients and families ended up in oblivion. Personally I fancy more the critical, but subtle polyphony as in the biological existentialism by Nassir Ghaemi (2013).

The next days my fellow researchers and the TAOS workshops gave me inspiration and energy. For instance, I was touched by the devotion and inspiration of Dr. Cornelia Oestereich, a German psychiatrist. During her workshop – “Promoting Change: Impacts of an Unusual Clinial Staff Training Program – SYMPA – Systemic Acute Psychiatry” – she described the development and implementation of a training program in systemic work for complete ward teams in psychiatric hospitals in Germany. In my opinion, her workshop deserved to be scheduled plenary, since it is an outstanding example of good practices that go beyond. 

Rolf Sundet defended during his workshop – “Collaboration and Dialogue: Conceptual Siblings as Helpers for Searching Therapists” -  the feedback orientated dialogic collaborative work. The so-called non-responders, or therapy-resistant clients, the 20 to 30% who miss the boat with evidence based therapies, they deserve customized care! Their therapist needs to be responsive – within the ethical boundaries – and tune to the personalized feedback which circulates within the dialogical space ( Sundet, 2012). Therefore the therapist can rely on the inner dialogue (Rober, 2010) and make use of the instruments for dialogical feedback. (Van Tricht, Sundet & Rober, 2014) This workshop emphasized the importance of qualitative research and therefore had a lot of potential.

Looking forward to the third international conference on Dialogical Practices from 23rd to 25th of September 2015 in Kristiansand (Norway), I’m hoping for a constructive, inspirational and polyphonous dialogue. To end with Kenneth Gergen’s epilogue: “We should be well prepared, as well as for the success of this new, promising, powerful movement as for the disagreement and disqualification that threatens it”.


References
Ghaemi, N. (2013). On Depression: Drugs, Diagnosis and Despair in the Modern World. Baltimore: John Hopkins University Press.
Rober, P. (2010). The therapist’s experiencing in family therapy practice. Journal of Family Therapy, 33, 1-23.
Sundet, R. (2012). Therapist perspectives on the use of feedback on process and outcome: Patient-focused research in practice. Canadian Psychology: 53(2), 122-130.
Van Tricht, K., Sundet, R. & Rober, P. (in progress). Feedback Inspired Dialogical Therapy: The Introduction of Dialogical Feedback Measurements.

Author
Karine van Tricht is a psychologist and marital and family therapist connected to Context (Institute for marital and family therapy) of UPC KU Leuven, campus Kortenberg, Leuvensesteenweg 517, 3070 Kortenberg, Belgium, karine.van.tricht@uc-kortenberg.be, www.uzleuven.be/context

Wednesday 15 October 2014

What do we know about miracles



In the summerschool and at other places I told about the project 'No Kids in the Middle" for children and their divorced fighting parents.

In the last group a miracle happened in the third session of the group. After nine years of fierce fighting, involving lawyers, child protection, network and many others, parents both decided to stop the relational war because it didn't bring them nor the children any good. Father told how sick he was of the fighting, it ruined his life and his body, he cried a lot. He decided not to fight about hours and even days anymore but to fight for a better situation for their son and for them all. Mother couldn't believe this turn immediately but was touched and she said he could be with their son next weekend when his family had a feast. They really struggled to find another tone, another dance.
We were all moved. When I went out for the break, the son (10) of these parents came to me and hugged me shortly.
Why did this miracle happen, what made it possible? We created a context that made it possible, but we didn't create this result.

In the same week we received a letter from a lawyer, asking for all the dossiers of a family with four children that had been in an earlier group. This family, parents and children, joined the group but they didn't change the dance. They are still fighting and we are part of the fight now. Probably mother want to have copy's of all the dossiers, but father will not agree. This makes me sad. I remember the small children, their eyes, their movements. It hurts that we didn't help them enough, that they still are in the middle.
Why didn't this family change their dance? We can make many stories about that, about them, about the therapeutic relation. We can theorize about what happened and why. But we do not know. We never know.

They only thing I can think of is trying to reach mother, call her, invite her to explain why she thinks we failed. What we can learn from her. And see if I can find a way to listen to her in a de- escalating way.

It's the only thing we can: try, fail, try again, fail again, fail better, (Beckett)

Justine van Lawick





Tuesday 14 October 2014

The role of embodied hermeneutical (holographic) unities in organizing our perceptual activities.

“The animals painted on the walls of Lascaux are not there in the same way as the fissures and limestone formations. But they are not elsewhere. Pushed forward here, held back there, held up by the wall’s mass they use so adroitly, they spread around the wall without ever breaking from their elusive moorings in it. I would be at great pains to say where is the painting I am looking at. For I do not look at it as I do at a thing; I do not fix it in its place. My gaze wanders in it as in the halos of Being. It is more accurate to say that I see according to it, or with it, than that I see it” (Merleau-Ponty, 1964, p.164).

As we look over the visual scene before us, and our eyes flick and drift from one fixation point to another, but sooner or later, we come to experience ourselves as ‘seeing something’ — and sometimes, as with Merleau-Ponty’s experience of the cave-paintings, to see such ‘somethings’ as expressing a meaning, as exhibiting a more that isn’t objectively present in the paint on the wall. However, it is not easy to ‘catch ourselves in the act’ of coming-to-see such somethings; in our everyday experience, we are not at all conscious of the process that leads to our seeing them, but conscious only of the result of this process. Hence we all too easily talk of it in after-the-fact terms; but this means that we get the process back to front — we try to understand a process in terms of its products.




   We can, however, begin to get a before-the-fact sense of what is involved in coming to see a well-formed ‘objective’ result by resorting to situations in which the normally smooth-running process seems at first to be inoperative, situations in which we find it difficult to produce expected results. Encountering an autostereogram is just such a circumstance. At first, in looking over it, we can make nothing of it; we are bewildered, and we might easily come to dismiss it as a nonsense. But then others tell us: “No, if you persist, you can see a 3-D figure in it.” Indeed, some will go further and not only describe in detail what can be seen, but also give hints, such as ‘go glassy-eyed’, ‘start with your nose on the figure’, or tell of how to ‘squint’ ones eyes so as to create a set of ‘fixation points’ — points at which the two different views of our two eyes are brought into a clear, common focus — appearing either in front of, or behind, the plane of dots on the printed on the page.

    Gradually, in looking over such displays, our body seems to teach us a way of looking such that we can come to see ‘something’ in the seeing, a ‘something’ appears within the act of seeing. Indeed, as Goethe has it: “Every new object, well contemplated, opens up a new organ of perception in us” (Goethe quoted in Amrine, p.47). What we ‘see’ is ‘there’ in the relations between our outgoing visual activities of ‘looking’ and their incoming ‘results’ — where our outgoing ways of looking are directed, at first, in the expectation of ‘seeing something at all’, and later, in the expectation of ‘seeing something in particular’. We do not, as the standard empiricist story has it, simply see what is ‘out there’ to be seen — as the plethora of recent “invisible gorilla alertness tests,” “person swapping, or “change blindness” experiments show (see http://youarenotsosmart.com/2009/11/06/change-blindness/).

    According to the standard story, seeing the world is a purely sensory experience. But as we can see above, the array of visual stimuli (the somewhat disorderly ink-marks on the paper), remain the same whether we can come-to-see a ‘cube-shape’ in one and a ‘camel-shape’ in the other or not. But ‘where’ are these ‘shapes’ located? They both seem to be ‘behind’ the paper-plane, and as we draw away from the page, they seem to retreat further behind it.

    The two-worlds picture below is different. By holding a pencil point in front of the two worlds picture and focussing on it, so that the left picture is superimposed on the right, you can create a third 3D world floating in front of the paper-plane, which moves towards you as you move further away — an image which we are at great pains to say where it is (Merleau-Ponty). Clearly, there is more to seeing than meets the eye. Contrary to our after-the-fact accounts, what we ‘see’ is in the seeing and not ‘out there’ simply on the page.



    What else, then, is at work in organizing our seeing such that we ‘see’, so to speak, only what we are looking for? Standard after-the-fact accounts have it that this work is done by ideal forms or shapes, ‘hidden behind appearances’, forms which, in practice, are described in terms of commonalities, regularities, nameable patterns, concepts, in short, in terms of abstractions. But what we see it in these figures is not at all general, it is quite particular and unique, i.e., not categorizable; it is seen in the same way by everyone (eventually) — as in the strange shaped figure in the display below:


    How can this be? We seem here to be tapping into a very basic, embodied human capacity. As our gaze “wanders in it as in the halos of Being” (Merleau-Ponty), we gather fragments, sequentially, here and there, at different moments in time, yet in such a way that each fragment gathered is related to our bodily orientation at the time of its gathering; and gradually, with no specific intention other than to ‘see something’, a specific ‘thisness’ or ‘thatness’ comes into view.

    The meaning-making process involved is, I think, similar to the hermeneutical process involved in our reading a text. As we move from one anticipation arousing word to the next connected to it, a flowing continuity of intra-connected anticipations and partial satisfactions begins to emerge.

    The process begins with our focussing on an indeterminate textual whole as the unique whole it is, known to us only globally as situated within a particular genre (as a novel, textbook, instruction manual, etc). We then proceed to conduct a step-by-step movement, from part-to-whole and back again, in such a way that an already partially specified internally articulated order is gradually internally articulated further to accommodate the particular, discernible details in the original global whole relevant to an overall ‘end in view’. In the process, one’s understanding of what a particular ‘something’ is, i.e., what a particular detail means, is clarified by ‘placing’ it within the larger whole within which it has a part to play.

    Thus, clearly, in such a process as this the hermeneneutical unities we constitute here are not at all like abstract generalities, defined in terms of a few distinctive features common to many instances; nor are they at all like objective, nameable patterns, observable out in the world at large; they are quite particular unities of unmerged particularities, within which the particularities are inter-linked with each other without losing their particularity. In other words, they possess a specific indeterminacy, and as such, they are open to being developed further, but only in already specific ways. In being already partially determined, they cannot just be determined further as we please, at each moment, only certain next steps are felt to be possible.

    William James (1897/1956), also with a concern similar to mine here, used our sense of the space in which we live our lives — a “very paragon of unity” (p.265) — as one of “the three great continua in which for each of us reason’s ideal is actually reached” (p.264) — the continua of memory or personal consciousness, being the other two. In such realms “continuity reigns, yet individuality is not lost” (p.265), he insists. “In the realm of every ideal,” he suggests, “we can begin anywhere and roam over the field, each term passing us to its neighbor, each member calling for the next, and our reason rejoicing in its glad activity. Where the parts of a conception seem thus to belong to each other by inward kinship, where the whole is defined in a way congruous with our powers of reaction, to see is to approve and understand” (p.264). Indeed, we can, so to speak, ‘zoom in’ and ‘zoom out’, to see more detail ‘close up’ or less to see ‘the larger whole’ — and perhaps further, to see the larger whole in its larger context.

    Arriving at such unities, such concrete imaginative universals, cannot be done, after-the-fact, simply by an uncontrolled amassing of information (facts) — for  they will remain unorganized into a unity — nor by making observations controlled by a pre-established conceptual framework — as the unique nature of the bewilderment we face in the circumstance will be ignored. The only way to avoid these two disastrous reductions, is by investigators coming to a qualitative sense of a situation as a whole. In short, we need to articulate the nature of the felt tension that a specific bewildering circumstance arouses in us, in linguistic terms intelligible to all involved within it; because, only if all involved can anticipate each others possible next steps, will they each be able to coordinate their actions with those of the others around them. In a flowing, not yet fully determined world, this ‘scene-setting’ activity must be prior to all else that we do, for only if all concerned come to operate from within the same holistic unity, in relation to the same particular imaginative universal, will all concerned by able to situate their concerns within the same shared space.

References:

    Amrine, F. (1998) The metamorphosis of the scientist. In D. Seamon and A. Zajonc (Eds.) Goethe's Way of Science: a Phenomenology of Nature, pp.33-54. Albany, NY: State University of New York Press.
James, W. (1897/1956) The Will to Believe. New York: Dover.
    Merleau-Ponty, M. (1964) Eye and Mind in Primacy of Perception and Other Essays, translated by Carleton Dallery (1964), and edited, with an Introduction by James M. Edie . Evanston, Il: Northwestern University Press, pp.159-190.
    Simons, D.J. & Rensink, R.A. (2005) Change blindness: Past, present, and future. Trends in Cognitive Sciences, 9(1): 16-20.


Tuesday 7 October 2014

Invitation

We are happy to invite you to the
Third International Conference on Dialogical Practices

«Listen to me!» 

Humanizing Human Practices

Kristiansand, Norway, 23rd to 25th of September 2015.


“Listen to me!” is an ambiguous title: it is a cry, a plea, the expression of a fundamental condition for existing. If no one ever listens to me, I gradually turn into nobody. On the other side “listen to me!” may also illustrate the monologic voice of the educator or professional who “knows best” and tries to control and form the other through an instructive approach. Developing dialogical ways of working is about “humanizing human practices”. Only through dialogue we can give space to people’s vitality – in a realm of intersubjectivity.

Children want to be heard! The conference will explore the title “Listen to me!” Humanizing human practices in relation to children and adolescents, within various contexts. 

We will do this through three broad themes.
  1. Dialogues of everyday life: We are all dependent on the dialogues of our everyday life - in our everyday social arenas. This urges us, as professionals, to engage in the social reality and networks of the people we are trying to help.
  2. Dialogues and social justice: Social justice is about being included or excluded - offered or denied a place - in a community. This makes the various dialogues of our lives into political events, and dialogical practices into political practices
  3. The dialogical body: Dialogical practice should not be reduced to communication and understanding in a cognitive sense – a matter of the mind. Dialogical practice operates through the movement, expressivity and responsiveness of the body.
This conference creates an arena were professionals, scholars, researchers and service users from various disciplines can meet and share their experiences and ideas, and co-create ways of working dialogically within human practices.

A pre-conference will be organized with Jaakko Seikkula, John Shotter, Jim Wilson, Peter Rober, Justine van Lawick.

A more detailed program, call for proposals, and further information will be presented later this autumn. Stay tuned.


For further information contact: Tore Dag Bøe: tore.d.boe@uia.no, Tone Lunde Brekka: tone.l.brekka@uia.no or Jaakko Seikkula: jaakko.seikkula@psyka.jyu.fi 
Organizers:

Network for Open Dialogical Practices www.opendialogicalpractices.eu
Institute for psychosocial health, University of Agder, Norway www.uia.no
Department for Children and Adolescent’s Mental Health, Sorlandet Hospital, Norway www.abup.no

Monday 29 September 2014

Neoliberalism has brought out the worst in us

Just a few weeks ago we posted a clip of Paul Verhaeghe's TED talk.  Today he has an article in the Guardian: 




Friday 26 September 2014

On the overdiagnosis of mental illness

Allen J. Frances headed the DSM IV taks force.  In retrospect, he is unhappy about his work on the DSM and he is very critical of DSM 5. 

In this 2012 lecture, Diagnostic Inflation: Does Everyone Have a Mental Illness?, he outlines why he thinks the DSM 5 will lead to millions of people being mislabeled with mental disorders. 

Here's a sequence of the lecture:




Check out the complete lecture on You Tube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yuCwVnzSjWA

Monday 22 September 2014

Towards a dialogue with extra-terrestials

Pioneer 10 (1972) and Pioneer 11 (1973) were the first spacecrafts programmed to leave the Solar System.  Astronomers Carl Sagan and Frank Drake have designed two gold-anodized aluminum plaques that were affixed to the spacecrafts.  These plaques feature a pictorial message, in case either Pioneer 10 or 11 would be intercepted by extraterrestrial life .

This is a picture of the plaque:


The plaque was intended to open a dialogue with extra-terrestrial life, showing a schematic representation of the hyperfine transition of hydrogen, the relative position of sun within the galaxy, the solar system, and two human figures: a man and a woman.  Notice the raised hand of the man.  It was meant the represent a sign of good will, but of course we don't know what raised extremities might mean to aliens.

It is interesting that there has been controversy about the nudity of the man and woman figures on the plaque. Therefore silhouettes of a man and a woman, rather than the photograph that was initially planned, were included on the golden record that was send with the Voyagers (1977).

Saturday 20 September 2014

A history of everything, including you

A History of Everything, Including You is a fascinating short story written by Jenny Hollowell.  It was published in the book New Sudden Fiction: Short Stories From America and Beyond

Here you can listen to the story, read by the author (from an episode of the podcast Radiolab).








Thursday 18 September 2014

Short term 12

I know it did not get rave reviews, but I love this movie about a youth care facility.

I think it is a great movie, if only for the respectful way in which young people in trouble are depicted.

Like in this scene: Marcus has been caught hiding drugs in his matras.  Grace tries to talk with him. He doesn't say much, but Grace begins to realize that Marcus, who will turn 18 soon, is afraid to leave the facility.

Upon Grace's suggestion, Mason is going to talk to him.

Mason listens to Marcus' rap in which for the first time he expresses something about what he can not talk about.








Sunday 14 September 2014

Talking about secrets

Talking about secrets in the summerschool this might interest you

http://ideas.ted.com/2014/07/09/the-art-and-science-of-sharing-a-secret/

Justine

Wednesday 10 September 2014

Time has come in mental health services – humanistic approaches are possible


On 1st of September I was invited to have a speech in a seminar in Helsinki. The subject was Mental health and Medicalization.  Out of us three having the speech the main lecture was given by Peter Goetsche, a Danish doctor, who is the director of the Nordic Cochrane center. Last year he published the book “Deadline medicine and  organized crime”.  His message in his speech was clear, even if a bit scary:  The Evidence Based recommendations for treatment of depression are based on research that is done by fraud. Pharmaceutical industry has strongly affected the research by financing it and by selecting only those studies to be published that show favorable results for antidepressive medication. But even worse: In many studies the design has been manipulated and if this is not enough, the results of the studies could have been changed.  Myself being a researcher also, all this information was awkward and disgusting.
I have had critical comments on the research design in randomized clinical trials, because e.g. in medication research there are many basic problems in the studies: The follow-up period is usually very short, between 6 to 8 weeks if compared medication to non-medication.  During this period some rapid changes will occur, but it does not tell of the long term outcome that actually in many studies has been shown to change in the way that the advantage of the medicine treatment is no longer visible at 1 year follow-up. The second basic problem in the design is that comparing group means actually do not tell anything about the single clients and their response to the studied method. Statistically significant difference may occur already even if only less than 30% of the participants in the treatment group go over the variation of the results within the control group. So actually 70 % of participants in both groups may have the same results and still because of the statistical difference the conclusion is made that all patients should have the treatment, e.g. antidepressive medication. This is use of power that is manipulated by the research design.
Peter Goetsche’s message has caused a lot of discussion.  His comments come out at the same time when convincing evidence has emerged that both neuroleptic medication in psychosis and antidepressive medication are related to brain changes. Neuroleptic medication has been shown to be related with shrinking of the brain.  More openness has emerged to come back to more humanistic and psychotherapeutically orientated treatment in most severe mental health problems. We are living a momentum, an important period of time, in which the field is open to receive good practices. But this does not happen by itself, but all of us who have the interest of more human services should be active in our context to introduce new ideas of dialogical practice, to organize education of the new practices and also to by research document the advantages of the new practice.

Jaakko Seikkula

Monday 8 September 2014

Loves: an emerging collage of stories about psychotherapy, love and loss

Besides this blog on dialogical practices, there's another blog that might be of interest to some of you: http://peterrober.blogspot.be/

It is an emerging collage of stories about psychotherapy, love and loss.

Every week new stories are added.
The whole collage of stories can be found below the new stories....

I'm not sure where this collage is going...
but it is definitely going somewhere...

Psychotic


Towards a society of solidarity and autonomy...

This is a TED talk of the Belgian Lacanian psycholanalyst Paul Verhaeghe.

Verhaeghe has become an influential thinker in the low countries.  Politicians read his books and listen to his words.

In this talk he uses hedgehogs as metaphors for human beings. A hedgehog needs connection with other hedgehogs, but being too close hurts.  So oscillating between too close and too far hedgehogs are always in search of the right distance.

His ideas orient us towards a less individualist and a less anxious future.


Thursday 4 September 2014

Dimensions of Dialogue (Jan Švankmajer)

This is an interesting clip.
It is part 2 of the Czech filmmaker Jan Švankmajer's short film "Dimensions of dialogue".




More information about this short film: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dimensions_of_Dialogue

Tip: Watch this clip with your students and have an enriching discussion on the meaning of dialogue...


Attunement and the need for an ‘intra-ontology”

Rather than as external agents wholly in control of the unfolding processes of importance to us, we need to see ourselves as being internally related to still-in-process, flowing ‘worlds’ of intermingling activities, activities which influence us as much, if not more, than we can influence them. We are not just in the world, but of it - we are a living part of it, within it.

    Thus, clearly, our bodies are not just passive recipients of stimuli from an external world 'over-there'. Rather, they are (or can be) attuned to the world. As Merleau-Ponty (1962) points out, even in the case of a minor reflex action, an organism’s perception is meaningful in the sense that “reflex actions are never themselves blind processes: they adjust themselves to a 'direction' of the situation, and express our orientation towards a 'behavioural setting', just as much as the action of the 'geographical setting' on us” (p. 79) - the relation is not just a mechanical, cause-and effect one..

    Consequently, there are two kinds of difficulty that we can face in life, not just one: there are 1) difficulties of the intellect and 2) difficulties of orientation or ways of relating: 1) We can formulate difficulties of the intellect as problems which, with the aid of clever theories, we can solve by the use of a ‘manipulational’ form of reasoning, making use of inner mental representations which we take as corresponding to an outer reality. 2) Difficulties of orientation or attunement, however, are of a quite different kind, for they are to do with how we relate ourselves bodily towards events occurring around us, the ways in which we see them, hear them, experience them, value them – for these are the ways that determine, that ‘give shape to’, the lines of action we resolve on as appropriate to the situations we find ourselves to be in.

    Indeed, to go further, it is only from within an achieved orientation shared by all within a social group that we all, as members of that group, can each, individually, pick out the things we need to attend to in our surroundings, and each make our own contribution to the solving of a problem understood in common by all in the group.  

    Attunement, or the idea of an orientation within a setting, or of a way of relating ourselves to our surroundings, is in fact a pervasive biological phenomenon, common to both human and non-human organisms in their responsive, living relations to/with their environment.

    For example, as Merleau-Ponty (1962) again points out: “when an insect's leg is severed, it substitutes it with a free one; however, no such substitution occurs when the leg is tied to another because the tied leg continues to count in the insect's scheme of things, and because the current of activity which flows toward the world still passes through it” (p.78).

    Vygotsky (1929) makes a similar comment with regard to the handicapped child: “The positive uniqueness of the handicapped child is created not by the failure of one or another function observed in a normal child but by the new formations caused by this lapse. This uniquely individual reaction to a defect represents a continually evolving adaptive process. If a blind or deaf child achieves the same level of development as a normal child, then the child with a defect achieves this in another way, by another course, by other means. And, for the pedagogue, it is particularly important to know the uniqueness of the course, along which he must lead the child. The key to originality transforms the minus of the handicap into the plus of compensation” (in The Fundamental Problems of Defectology, p.2).

    Kurt Goldstein (1995/1933) too notes: “We have become so accustomed to regard symptoms as direct expressions of the damage in a part of the nervous system that we tend to assume that, corresponding to some given damage, definite symptoms must inevitably appear. We do so because we forget that normal as well as abnormal reactions (“ symptoms ") are only expressions of the organism's attempt to deal with certain demands of the environment.... Symptoms are answers, given by the modified organism to definite demands: they are attempted solutions to problems derived on the one hand from the demands of the natural environment and on the other from the special tasks imposed on the organism in the course of the examination” (p.35).

    Our attunement or orientation toward the others and othernesses around us is reciprocated by their actions on us — we occupy what elsewhere I have called “agential spaces” (Shotter, 2013). Even our physical surroundings are not just ‘there’, awaiting our intentions to act upon them; they ‘call for’ certain actions from us. For instance, a Parkinson’s patient finds it very difficult to take a step on a flat floor, but can walk down stairs (and across illusory stairs) with fluency (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lc-8gzTDD5I).

    In other words, we are seeing/experiencing here circumstances where people/organisms are acting in terms of the meaning of their surroundings to them. This, it seems to me, is what von Uexkull was trying to capture in his notion of a person’s/organism’s Umwelt — which is not the ‘mere’ environment an outsider might observe but the environment as perceived and experienced by the organism itself. 'Entering-into' strange 'ways of being in the world' would be the task of an intra-ontology.

Tuesday 2 September 2014

You can fuck with the customers... but you have to watch your language


This clip was made as a trailer for the re-make of the motion picture Carrie in 2013.

What is interesting for me is how the makers of this clips fuck with the customers (their own words), but censor the word "fuck" several times.  

You can do it, but you have to watch your language.





Monday 25 August 2014

Sofie Muller

During the summer school last week, one of the participants (Stef Anthoni) recommended the work of a Belgian contemporary artist who makes (among other things) sculptures of children: Sofie Muller.

I took a look at her work on the WWW.

I must say, it is great art as she avoids the clichés (e.g. children as innocent, angelic creatures) and creates an uneasy, mysterious atmosphere around children and their loneliness.

This is one of her works:

She has an exhibition in Antwerp starting in September and one in Cologne, also starting in September.  Check out her website: http://www.sofiemuller.be/

Thanks Stef!

Sunday 24 August 2014

David Smail

I want to draw everyone's attention to the work of my friend David Smail.... he died just recently: on 3rd August 2014... I went to his funeral just before coming to Leuven.

His books are:
And his website is: http://www.davidsmail.info/... 

Basically, his view of "psychological distress" is :"Hardly any of the 'symptoms' of psychological distress may correctly be seen as medical matters. The so-called psychiatric 'disorders' are nothing to do with faulty biology, nor indeed are they the outcome of individual moral weakness or other personal failing. They are the creation of the social world in which we live, and that world is structured by power."

The manifesto of the Midland Group he formed can be found on:  http://www.midpsy.org/draft_manifesto.htm

Love to all, john   

Change without therapist

Sometimes change happens when the therapists are not there, but the therapists create the context that makes it possible: 
From my latest paper about groupwork with high conflict divorces and children: 

Free space for interactions
A room where the families come together without the presence of therapists turned out to be very important. A lot happens in the free space before the group sessions start, during the break and after the session. Sometimes change start to happen in this room, and other areas away from the therapists, rather than in the therapy sessions. Children that do not see one of the parents for some time or even years mix with all the parents and children and are in the same room with that alienated parent. For most children it is the first time in years that they see the parents again together.
An example: Two parents with four children were in the family room. The two youngest children visited their father regularly and the eldest saw their father for the first time in years. When the eldest son saw how happy and loving father was for his younger brother, he started to move towards his father as well. 



Justine

The Summer School for Family Therapy (Leuven, August 2014)

Last week the summer school took place in Leuven.  5 days of intensive work with an international group of experienced family therapists.

It was a fascinating experience, also this year.

New this year was the work with horses on Tuesday afternoon.  See picture.


Making contact with horses made room for reflection on attunement, dialogue, communication, occasioning, ...

Furthermore, there were the contributions of  Jaakko Seikkula, John Shotter, Jim Wilson and Justine van Lawick.  We talked about psychosis, improvisation, conflictual divorce, the relational mind, family secrets, and so on.

We experienced, we reflected and we discussed.

Yes, it was a fascinating experience and I hope that our clients in the coming weeks will benefit from this experience of ours.

Occasioning

Hi Everyone.... Peter asked me about "Occasioning"... the fact that we cannot 'make' change happen, but we can 'occasion' it, that is, by not doing all kinds of 'planned' things, but by being 'open' and 'spontaneously responsive', we can let creativity happen.... love to all, john

Here's an entry I've written for a 'concepts' book:

Occasioning:

We cannot, I think, plan genuine innovative change, but we can prepare ourselves for it (see entry on Preparing activities). Indeed, to go further, we can occasion it, in the sense of ‘setting the scene’ for the happening of change.

    As we have seen, there is something very special about the dynamically flowing nature of dialogically-structured activities that has not yet been properly understood and assimilated into the way we conduct our inquiries (see entries on Joint action and the dialogical and Spontaneous responsiveness). What makes this kind of joint activity so special, is that when it occurs, unique, qualitatively distinct, ephemeral ‘somethings’ emerge from within the dynamically unfolding entwinings of the two or more unique ‘flows’ of activity involved within it.

    Indeed, as Bakhtin (1986) points out, because (a) something novel, related to the circumstances of the dialogical transaction itself, is always created, and (b) because its overall outcome cannot be traced back to the intentions of any of the individuals involved (see entry on Emergence), the novel ‘somethings’ created are experienced not as objects, but as agencies with their own (ethical) demands and requirements: “Each dialogue takes place,” he says, “as if against a background of the responsive understanding of an invisibly present third party who stands above all the participants in the dialogue (partners)... The aforementioned third party is not any mystical or metaphysical being... he is a constitutive aspect of the whole utterance, who, under deeper analysis, can be revealed in it” (pp.126-127). We can thus find ourselves as participants ‘parts’ within an ongoing reality which affects us as much, if not more, than we can affect it.

    One reason for it not being assimilated into how we conduct our inquiries, is the way in which we currently generate and ask the questions driving what we think of as rational to inquire into. We far too easily begin our inquiries from what is a ‘problem’ for us and ‘how’ we think about it now (see entries on Preparing activities and Upstream thinking). The kinds of changes that are needed in our thinking are ‘deep’ changes, changes in our ‘ways’ of thinking, ‘ways’ of seeing, of hearing, ‘ways’ of  ‘making connections’ between events, ‘ways’ of talking, and so on ― in short, they are changes not in what ‘we think’ but in ‘what we think with’ (see entry on Withness thinking) — as Rorty (1979) notes: “It is pictures rather than propositions, metaphors rather than statements, which determine most of our philosophical convictions” (p.12).

    Genuine innovative changes cannot be produced in a person or organization in accord with a plan or strategy, i.e., it is not a matter of praxis, of conducting an ordered activity with a well defined end in view. It is a matter of poiesis — an originating creativity that goes beyond currently existing understandings, a creativity that just happens, which emerges only if the appropriate dialogic circumstances are in place (see entry on Attitudes, agency, and orientation). Pre-decided questions stand in the way of genuinely creative, dialogically-structured activities (see entry on Joint action the dialogical). Thus, to repeat, innovative change cannot be planned; but it can be occasioned or circumstanced.

Hi all


Thank you for the inspiring week in Leuven. Dialogical world - more humanistic one - is one step nearer to us!

Dialogue and the right to hate




Daryl Davis is a black musician and he tries to understand racism.  He talked with white supremacists.

Here's his story (it is a podcast of Love+Radio, http://loveandradio.org/)

https://soundcloud.com/loveandradio/the-silver-dollar